| | Are you, YOU?
Being oneself to the fullest is in fact being who you really are. I 'd
like to put it as being "Individualistic". Being one, is that of only
fulfillinig oneself's interest regardless of what the society has to
say about, noting that being one pushes the ideal being/life one
chooses to live his or her life.
This is just a different angle of looking at "what is being yourself
all about?", thus does not reflect the accounted comments regarding
this topic as being "the wright oppinion".
"I am ME. I like to do what I like. I do not hide my characteristics. I
like being ME because I am living the life I want to live. I am a
Diva/Brat/Bitch, and I do not care what others have to say about ME. I
love to express myself to know that I have no boundaries to supress ME."
It is all about YOU, YOU, YOU and YOU. In turn, it portrays the
fundlemental issue of being selfish because there is no space of
considering what people around you feel about YOU. Everything in
your life is fueled by the forces of "the Arms of Rebel"; rejecting all
those who do not accept/agree to you. You only agree to anything that
supports your freedom of being YOU. This is in fact the lifes of "BE
YOURSELF" activists live their everyday life till the day they die and
that they have made too many enemies till the point only a handful
come to your funeral.
Being yourself is different than that of being youself to the fullest.
Everyone is being themselfs, its just how much people tend to go push
that side of themselfs. For instance, Melrose from America's Next Top
Model is being hated by all the rest of the contestants because she was
being herself. It does not mean that the rest of the contestants were
not being themselfs but rather, Melrose herself had only wanted to be
who she is and not fix her attitude. By fixing and changing one's
attitude does not mean you are faking a personality. It is that you are
being a better YOURSELF. Another hypothetical example is that say Guy A
and Girl B are both friends, and are in the Gym working out. Guy A asks
Girl B why cant he get girls he wants.Girl B gives a comment and said
that Guy A is not masculine enough and that he has to fix his attitude.
Guy B then feels offended and lashes Girl B vocaly and claims that he
would not change himself to be more masculine so to get girls and
rather be who he is. In this case, the Diva Guy A prefers to be himself
of which who has flaws in his characteristics, and do not wish to
better himself. Girl B's advices were rejected by Guy A because it
obstruct Guy A to be who he is. So tell me, by learning to accept
crucial oppinions commented by others; makes you a person who is not
being yourself / a fake?
I am a very talkative person which may sometimes annoy people, and I
can be hyper at times. But say I was to attend some really posh
cocktail party with all the important people present. Do you think I
should talk to the CEO of some company like "eh relek lah, bang" and
start yaking away? Of course not, we all have to be decent at times
even if I may hate being too formal. Rather than not attending the
party, attend it and be respectful, with class and dignity and be part
of the party. There are times we all should let loose but not always
because we have to respect people around you too.
We all want to live lifes to how we all want to. But we do not only
live alone in this vast World. We live with all sorts of organism,
which include humans that make up the society. We live a in a world
where its just not YOU that matters, but also people around you.
Would you prefer to have tons of friends who you can really count on
that it is because of your good attributes that got very far in life?
Or would you rather live life with just 2-3 friends who you can trully
express yourself One hundred and Ten percent to them and that these 2-3
friends can tolerate your attitude, and having a life filled with
problems because of not being a better YOU?
I myself can be very talkative and annoying at times, and I know most
of my friends just swallow that fact of me down. They either chose not
to speak of it or that they chose to live with it. Either way, it does
make oneself to think not to go overboard with being who I really am.
Why should I look at it as that my friends are'nt really my friends for
disliking that part of me? Why should I avoid them and go on on a hunt
to search for mates who likes every square centimeter of me? My friends are the one who can be honnest to me and tell me things of which is helpful to me. I will be seeing it as they have told me the flaws in me that should be ammended... Idiocy is
one thing, but I'd rather move forward in life that I change/evolve for
the best. I am not changing who I am, but to be a better LeFa who
prefers to excel in life. Bad attributes of me should be abandoned and
good attributes from good role models whould be absorbed. So anyhoo,
LeFa is not trying to fake up who he really is, but to harness the best
attributes of himself.
Just some random thought I had. I guess the server is up by now and
time to go on my SlutLock and fear the pansy Alliance till they wet
their pants! =P
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